Since my wife started to get Botox and fillers, her face has gone dead. She can’t lift her eyebrows, and smile properly, and sometimes she looks like a hamster.

She’s only 47, and a very beautiful woman, but she’s losing her beauty and she can’t see that. She thinks that looking young is the big deal. What can I say that won’t destroy her confidence in herself, but will help her to understand that I’m finding it hard to live with the plastic face I see?

l Barbara says: Say what you just said, and say it to her. She needs to hear it from the man who loves her. It’s very important.